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HOW TO GET OVER HURT AND DISAPPOINTMENT AND STOP ATTRACTING OR RECYCLING PAIN IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
FREE AUDIO In this audio I share my own journey and an oveview of my approach to transforming your love relationship to yourself which completely changes your romantic life
Most of us start relationships unhealed. We are only capable of conditional love which amounts to "I love you if you do and be what I want you to do and be for me". It is a needy love that projects expectations and is felt as pressure by our partner. Its a love that is fuelled by our inner lack of love for ourselves and can keep us stuck in an approval seeking, sacrificial, obedient, loyal but unsatisfactory even "selfless" mode or it attracts partners again and again that frustrate, disappoint or hurt us. Typically in the height of passion, high voltage attraction and excitement, we get hooked and mistake this for intimacy. We often give up a lot of power trying to compensate for our sense of lack within by shapeshifting who we are into what we think our partners expect. We often become obsesive, controlling, possessive and demanding out of insecurity and fear of rejection, loss orabandonment. We mistake our selflessness, loyalty, attachment or passionate intensity and jealousy even, for commitment. But real LOVE does not cause thissort of pain and cannot actually be threatened by your partner's change of mood, perceived insults or unmet expectations. Its the type of love that is based on mutial respect and support , without demands, expectations or neediness. This is only attainable once you have commited to dealing with the cause of insecurity, your inner lack which often means looking deeply at your childhood wounds abandonment issues and any unresolved trauma.. Until there is commitment to this inner work of healing, we /partners get repeatedly triggered by our unmet expectations and feel hurt let down, betrayed and angry. We remain stuck in a place of pain, insecurity and woundedness- we are desperate for love not realizing we must first give it to ourselves. Only inner wholeness that comes from uncondiotinal self love creates healthy, fulfilling, lasting relationships. Getting to this place of inner wholeness through healing that ignites an unmistakeable self love, a glow of warmth and comfort within the body (that we try to get from others) is a huge rite of passage for us all. It took me a good many years to figure this out and do the clearing out of blocks and accessing, and anchoring the warmth and comfort and security into my body. The entire process is accessible to anyone ready ot commit to themselves right here. www.emotional-detox.com/audio-series
I know first hand (got a few scars) that relationhips can be extremely painful for us until the penny drops and we get on with the task of unconditionally loving ourselves which ends all insecurity, co-dependency, neediness and disappointment from unmet expectations. Basically we grow up and claim our sovereign power and cease all projections onto others from any sense of lack or incompletion. The basis of all hurt and pain in unhealed relationships is a deep belief in lack within and this energy of lack attracts lack and insufficiency in partners until we change our relationship to ourselves at a DEEP CORE SOUL LEVEL. When we do this inner work we can even transform existing relationships or discover the strength to move on to create a healthy, whole relationship with someone new..
FREE AUDIO from my Inner wealth series. In this free introductory audio I share my own journey and an overview of my energetic approach to transforming your love relationship to yourself which completely changes your romantic life.
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