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HOW WE CAN GET FREE OF PAIN AND DISRESPECT IN PERSONAL, PROFESSIONAL OR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS

We get free from painful or disrespectful relationships (personal , family or professional) by freeing our deep rooted victim energy, often from past lives, that we carry embedded in our energy circuitry , that gets triggered by the souls WE contracted with prior to incarnating. Victim energy is our own distorted energy first created by splitting away/ separating from the our self. soul, source, oneness , love,light, purity that we are in essence. We did this"splitting" from who we truly are when we first incarnated onto earth because we chose to experience separation/ duality consciousness for the purposes of soul growth. We chose to evolve from love as innocence to really "knowing "who and what we are as love by experiencing what we are NOT. We are all trying to find our way home back to oneness/ love by consciously healing our own split/separation.


Our family relationships are often our earliest and frequently the most painful contracts this lifetime. The childhood wounding and trauma particularly from parental or caregiver's neglect, abandonment or abuse, requires our relentless dedication to heal and get free from any lingering attachment or claim to victim-hood that is impacting our sense of entitlement to a life rooted in freedom and joy. Victim energy typically plays out in adultahood as disrespect, problems, acute vulnerability, limitations, blaming, not receiving what we need or want , approval seeking jealousy, feeling overlooked, deprived, LESS THAN and defensive reactivity. We carry a back-log of suppressed unhealed emotions that are the effect of what we have endured yet still not processed. Processing means fully, compassionately accepting and feeling how we feel , all the pain, anger, hurt and the understandable desire to lash out or kick back. All of it has to be lovingly welcomed and properly released out of our body so that we are no longer carrying the discordant energy to get triggered. Where there is trauma - especially deep care and professional help is needed. Basically we diffuse our own emotionally reactive "charge" so that we can get out of the cycle of blame, retaliation or corrosive long term seething resentments to being victimized by anyone or anything. If we don't do this emotional detoxing to clear our discordant energy we continue transmitting the discordant energy and reactively claiming and re-enacting victim-hood which just keeps it in our energy fields which means we haven't let it go. Rarely can we just mentally forgive someone and expect to feel free. Forgiveness whilst well intended doesn't usually go deep enough to clear the visceral layers of hurt and pain that are frozen and stuck in time in our cells from lifetimes back even. Our soul energy is a geometric structure, and we need effective energy mastery tools to get right inside our body and to navigate and collapse and clear the discordant dense energy structures/emotional densities that are inhibiting our full soul expansion and freedom.


These soul contracts are only here to prompt us to completely purge out our own discordant victim energy. So it's about our taking responsibility (without self-blame ) for our own energy - it's not about THEM, ever. The moment we can 100% own our own soul agreement/contract in this without guilt or shame, our whole vibrational frequency starts to elevate and we feel a lot lot lighter. We all carry victim energy to some degree because the energy bandwidth of duality /separation from love ,is inherently dominated and held in place by comparative judgments of good/ bad, right/ wrong, punishment /reward, guilty /innocent, victim/perpetrator etc. Without the contracting energy of judgement everything just IS which just naturally frees the grip that magnetizes any form of attack or disrespect from another or being overwhelmed by other's energy if we are very sensitive. It's by being able to exercise our own choice for non judgement and unconditional self- forgiveness that we can begin to relinquish the grip of victim-hood in duality consciousness and dive into the work of releasing the emotional reactivity that has accumulated over lifetimes.

It's never our job to heal another without being asked to - which is an overlooked all too rampant boundary issue for many, many people actually , especially with " empathic unhealed healers" who stick around toxic people believing they can help. Certain people are contractually in our lives for the singular purpose to trigger US, so that WE have to clear up OUR own victim energy and LEAVE toxic situations, or massively restrict contact as an act of self-respect and self- empowerment. It's NOT ABOUT THEM. As horrible as the pain can be - "they" are actually doing us a massive favor if we get catalysed and motivated and get on with clearing out our victim energy and free ourselves once and for all.


If YOU ARE READY TO 100% LOVE AND RESPECT YOURSELF AND INVEST IN YOUR FREEDOM AND DO THE WORK OF CLEARING YOUR ENERGY ?

Then I have a range of options to help you connect deeply to your core-soul - light and deconstruct the dense discordant energies that are limiting the power of your soul to create FOR you in practical everyday life. This is refined work.



● business energy clearing on an agreed contract



What I do with you is tailored to your unique specific personal or professional needs so that you can get practical results from day one.


Newcomers I suggest you take a look at my site and/or book a free call with me so that we can get clear about what you need and how I can help and we can go into the specifics of your energy transformation.

Love Lou Louise Smart Smart CThA


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We are our own universe and we are pretending to NOT be love until we choose to be ONLY love again

#lightworkers


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