SOME LIGHT ON TRAUMA
We are all affected by trauma in a way that is completely unique to us individually. So there is no point comparing your experience or minimising it because of what someone else has gone through. Compassion for YOURSELF. and your own direct experience helps you to be real and fully present with your SELF and your power which is actually what you need to be able to heal.
Trauma from any lifetime, leaves energetic imprints and memories in our field and wounding in our nervous system. Imprints are felt or sensed as symbolic messages that come to you in moments of lucidity, in memory flashes, in dreams and spontaneous knowing. They can give you clues about traumatic events in your past as to what is still begging for healing , unconditional love and the certainty of safety and the knowledge of your true power and dominion as a soul. Imprints when interpreted with higher awareness as apposed to our fearful ego , are messengers of empowerment that can lift us out of any stubborn residue of victim consciousness. They are part of the residue from trauma that can HELP you when interpreted correctly.
When your nervous system is quiet enough, these imprints can give you relevant memories and impressions from the traumatic circumstances and show you what was missing at the time of the original trauma. Typically what was missing was a way out , protection, security , love , safety , compassion , certainty , caring support , trust , faith , healing, relaxation, power and authority. When you know what was missing you can learn how to bring THAT into your field now so that you can become whole and allow your soul to lead from this wholeness instead of your traumatized reactive fragmented fearful ego self.
With high level healing you can confidently get beyond just coping or managing any presenting discomfort and stress and learn to interpret the symbolic message of an imprint / memory in a new positive light free of fear. And you can learn how to recieve the soothing nurturing of unconditional love from Source and you can learn to energetically align and connect into the certainty of your innate safety and power and dominion with your felt senses. But ,until you intentionally do this healing your nervous system wound remaims like an open wound. It's exposed and vulnerable to your unchallenged default state of anxiety or panic by being on red alert to danger mistreatme t or abandonment. Its vulnerable to your entrained expectation of threat . Its vulnerable to your belief in the need to protect against victimization and mistreatment or abandonment which just perpetuates as an ever present threat that you compulsively try to actively avoid. Its vulnerable to anything that reminds you of the original trauma even if that reminder is on the television or in a news story. All your avoidance and protection mechanisms just freeze you in a patterned reactivity to your vulnerability. NOT its resolution. Life becomes a repeated cycle of trauma wound and nervous system triggering and protection and numbing tactics which sabotage you because they disconnect you from your true innate power to create life from love instead of the old patterns of fear.
As uncomfortable and inconvenient as it is , there is actually an intelligence and opportunity inherent in trauma wound triggering because repeat patterns of adversity that trigger you can activate new self awareness and open portals to higher level of consciousness and support. Its important to acknowledge that fear and wound energy is a powerful bound up force that energetically attracts circumstances and people on the same frequency that triggers the original trauma wound . Triggering stimulates your nervous system making you feel very very uncomfortable. You might go through cycles of insomnia, nightmares, anxiety and panic attack. When you are less consciously aware. you respond to trauma - imprint- memories with fear and may try to regulate your nervous system with some kind of anaesthetic/ numbing or stimulants or distracting behaviour which is typically self sabotaging often with disastrous consequences. But understandably ,numbing or self - distraction or any kind of drama feels familiar and preferable to feeling the fear, discomfort and vulnerability. And so you cling to hurtful people and painful circumstances because they are the devil you know and accept and tolerate . Because that is what you have concluded you deserve, its all you have learned to project into your reality and to expect. Its also all you feel worthy of. You might tolerate overworking ,, people pleasing ,, loveless sexual encounters, abuse, neglect or mistreatment out of a misguided sense of power that you can heal another or wait it out for things to get better . So these hurtful people and painful circumstances that you unconsciously keep attracting are very much contributory to you remaining reactively frozen in the past UNTIL these painful triggers transition into being g activations that offer you the awareness , impetus , motivation and opportunity to heal and change.
Wound triggers often have to take us to our knees many times through their vibrational attraction of repeated adverse circumstances before we are finally done with the cycle of suffering and fear. Being DONE is a highly potent energetically charged choice. There is a profoundly significant finality to it. And we then get activated into a commitment to our healing and this gradually forges a greater trust in the presence of loving safety within our being . We intentionally begin to align with this presence of loving inner safety and the help of higher frequencies and beings of light , healing and support so that we can merge back into our innate eternal wholeness. As we were created.
Often when we emerge from despair or we have somehow got ourselves out of another nightmarish self sabotaging drama with prayer or a miracle or some fluke providence, something profoundly real dawns on us that there is and always has been a light and love that can save us. That light and love is the real YOU aligned with the intelligence of Source. /Love. Its your true soul power unencumbered by your fearful ego's interpretation of your triggered nervous system's responses, your history or conditioning or self protection or anaesthetic numbing tactics .
So in Emotional Detox and Energy Clearing Sessions I am helping you to align with the REAL YOU all of the time and to build trust in your REAL SELF. You will learn to use your activations to draw all the energy and support you need into your field to be able to heal, integrate and merge any traumatized frozen aspect of yourself with your innate wholeness . Its a loving compassionate process of Soul embodiment , sovereignty and empowerment.
You will learn how to
● positively interpret the symbols in energetic memory /imprints from trauma (from this life and in past lives)that were placed there by your Holy / Whole True Higher Self to guide you, from the moment you unconconsciously chose to explore adversity through life in separation consciousness.(separation from Love/Source)
● to completely trust the intelligence and power of your higherself / soul light to be able to penetrate right into your wounded parts and flood your felt senses with compassionate nurturing love and heal you . Its a love that builds the backdrop to your reality and becomes your default instead of fear and defensive self protection.
● learn techniques to calm your nervous system and release yourself from anxiety, panic , insomnia , nightmares and self sabotaging self -numbing habits
● connect with your original divine template of unconditional safety and innate protection
● rescue soothe nurture reassure and heal your inner child who is still out of his or her depth trying desperately to protect you
● trust your innate safety implicitly as your all powerful unseen guardian no matter what is challenging you in your personal or professional life. Its the part of you that you were unaware of when you were subjected to trauma or repeat traumas. You bring your innate safety to life as a felt tangible reality.
● let go of defensive protective mechanisms that only reinforce your belief in threat and the compulsive need to avoid threat
● let go of self medicating and numbing so that you are fully present and an intentional participant in the process of merging with your soul's innate wholeness and dominion
● stop sabotaging your life and health with drama, crises and self medicating
● restore your identity as unconditionally loveable and worthy as you were originally created by your creator
● raise your signature frequency by letting go of old patterns and attachments eg I show you how to let go of compulsively over giving and wanting attention, love and approval from the hurtful people and circumstances that vibrated to your old victim consciousness. This is how you attract a new reality rooted in love for yourself which is automatically mirrored by people and circumstances that reflect the vibration of your loving relationship to yourself.
● project and call forth what you want by identifying as your soul's wholeness instead of tolerating what you have UNconsciously called forth with your ego's desire to be mistreated .
● completely let go of all self blame and blaming others for the past in the recognition that blame KEEPS YOU IN VICTIM CONSCIOUSNESS without exception.
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